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What does it mean?
Women traditionally centered their lives on emotional bonds, risking total ruin if those bonds broke.
In plain terms
Women often built their world on love and lost everything when it failed.
What can you take from it?
Emotional dependency can lead to devastating loss.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • social critique
  • personal history

Putting it to work

  • build independence
  • balance love and self
  • seek support

Questions to consider

  • Where do you find your identity?
  • What would a heartbreak cost you?

Another view

Modern women often have broader sources of identity.

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