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Freedom so often means that one isn't needed anywhere. Here you are an individual, you have a background of your own, you would be missed. But off there in the cities there are thousands of rolling stones like me. We are all alike; we have no ties, we know nobody, we own nothing. When one of us dies, they scarcely know where to bury him... We have no house, no place, no people of our own. We live in the streets, in the parks, in the theatres. We sit in restaurants and concert halls and look about at the hundreds of our own kind and shudder.

Willa Cather#15

FreedomCommunityBelongingLonelinessAlienationCity

About this quote

What does it mean?
Freedom can mean being unneeded. Cities make individuals feel lost among strangers with no ties or home. People shudder at how interchangeable they are.
In plain terms
Cities can make you feel alone and replaceable, even if you are free.
What can you take from it?
Beware the loneliness of anonymous freedom.

Where it applies

  • urban life
  • moving alone
  • job searching

Putting it to work

  • build local ties
  • seek community

Questions to consider

  • Does freedom mean being alone?
  • What ties give you value?

Another view

Some people value anonymity over local ties.

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