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What does it mean?
Alexandra is calm and fatalistic, which confuses young people. Youth think life must feel stormy and painful to be real.
In plain terms
She is calm like a fatalist. Young people think real life needs pain.
What can you take from it?
Calm is not the same as dead.

Where it applies

  • conflict between generations
  • seeking intensity
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • accept calm states
  • recognize growth

Questions to consider

  • Must pain prove you are alive?
  • Is calm a form of living?

Another view

Constant calm may prevent learning from pain.

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