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On starlight nights I used to pace up and down those long, cold streets, scowling at the little, sleeping houses on either side, with their storm-windows and covered back porches. They were flimsy shelters, most of them poorly built of light wood, with spindle porch-posts horribly mutilated by the turning-lathe. Yet for all their frailness, how much jealousy and envy and unhappiness some of them managed to contain! The life that went on in them seemed to me made up of evasions and negations; shifts to save cooking, to save washing and cleaning, devices to propitiate the tongue of gossip. This guarded mode of existence was like living under a tyranny. People's speech, their voices, their very glances, became furtive and repressed. Every individual taste, every natural appetite, was bridled by caution. The people asleep in those houses, I thought, tried to live like the mice in their own kitchens; to make no noise, to leave no trace, to slip over the surface of things in the dark.

Willa Cather#35

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Small houses hide much unhappiness due to social pressures and gossip.
In plain terms
These houses look simple but hold much fear and judgment.
What can you take from it?
Social pressure creates hidden unhappiness in homes.

Where it applies

  • community life
  • neighborhood
  • small town

Putting it to work

  • be honest
  • challenge norms

Questions to consider

  • Do you feel judged by neighbors?
  • Why do people hide?

Another view

People might choose this caution for safety or peace.

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