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What does it mean?
Time causes us to lose illusions, but some early memories remain more real than new experiences.
In plain terms
Growing up means losing illusions, but old memories feel better than new things.
What can you take from it?
Early memories can hold more value than current realities.

Where it applies

  • aging
  • reflecting on change
  • seeking comfort

Putting it to work

  • journaling
  • life review
  • therapeutic practice

Questions to consider

  • Are memories more real than life?
  • Do we lose too much growing up?

Another view

It undervalues the potential of future experiences.

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