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What does it mean?
Suffering is bearable when shared, but dying alone and undeservedly feels unjust and isolating.
In plain terms
Suffering is hard to bear when you are alone and feel it is unfair.
What can you take from it?
Isolation and perceived injustice make suffering harder to endure.

Where it applies

  • end of life
  • isolation
  • unfair treatment

Putting it to work

  • seek support
  • acknowledge pain
  • advocate for fairness

Questions to consider

  • Why does suffering feel unfair when you are alone?
  • How can you support others in pain?

Another view

Some find meaning or peace even in isolated suffering.

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