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What does it mean?
Women are often admired because their motives remain unclear.
In plain terms
We like women because we do not understand them.
What can you take from it?
Mystery can create admiration.

Where it applies

  • courtship
  • social interaction
  • art

Putting it to work

  • appreciate complexity
  • avoid assumptions

Questions to consider

  • Do you value mystery over truth?
  • Why do we want to understand others?

Another view

This view objectifies women and ignores individuality.

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