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What does it mean?
Grief is painful but preferable to emptiness or lack of feeling.
In plain terms
I choose grief over nothing at all.
What can you take from it?
Feelings, even painful ones, matter more than numbness.

Where it applies

  • personal loss
  • mourning
  • emotional processing

Putting it to work

  • accept grief
  • process loss

Questions to consider

  • What is better: pain or numbness?
  • How do you cope?

Another view

It romanticizes pain as the only alternative to emptiness.

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