They must first judge themselves, that presume to censure others: And such will not be apt to overshoot the Mark. We are too ready to retaliate, rather than forgive, or gain by Love and Information. And yet we could hurt no Man that we believe loves us. Let us then try what Love will do: For if Men did once see we Love them, we should soon find they would not harm us. Force may subdue, but Love gains: And he that forgives first, wins the Lawrel. If I am even with my Enemy, the Debt is paid; but if I forgive it, I oblige him for ever. (542 - 547)
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Judge yourself before others; love and forgiveness are better than force or retaliation.
- In plain terms
- Judge yourself first and use love to win people instead of force.
- What can you take from it?
- Self-reflection and love resolve conflicts better than judgment or force.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you forgive easily?
- How do you handle enemies?
Another view
Not all adversaries respond well to love or forgiveness.
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