I was four years old, and had long since reasoned that it was folly to expect the big things from people. It was enough to get the little things. The biggest thing, of course, was love, the nearness of somebody you love when you need somebody to be near.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The author realized early that expecting grand gestures from others is unrealistic; finding comfort in small acts and closeness of loved ones is what truly matters.
- In plain terms
- Expect less from people, but cherish the small things and the presence of those you love.
- What can you take from it?
- Focus on small comforts and closeness rather than big expectations.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What small things have brought you comfort?
- How do you define love?
Another view
This view might underestimate the potential for genuine greatness in people.
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