It is only for those to employ force who possess strength without judgment; but the well advised will have recourse to other means. Besides, he who pretends to carry his point by force hath need of many associates; but the man who can persuade knows that he is himself sufficient for the purpose; neither can such a one be supposed forward to shed blood; for, who is there would choose to destroy a fellow citizen rather than make a friend of him by mildness and persuasion?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Xenophon argues persuasion is superior to force, as it avoids bloodshed and builds friendship.
- In plain terms
- It is better to persuade than to use force and allies.
- What can you take from it?
- Choose persuasion over violence to solve conflicts.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When does force become necessary?
- Can leaders rely only on words?
Another view
Persuasion is not always possible against determined adversaries.
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