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What does it mean?
People resist criticism that suggests their goals conflict with higher moral principles.
In plain terms
Men do not like being told they disagree with God.
What can you take from it?
Accusations of moral disagreement provoke defensiveness.

Where it applies

  • ethical debates
  • religious discussions
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • approach sensitive topics gently
  • avoid accusatory language
  • seek common ground

Questions to consider

  • How do we challenge bad ideas without alienating people?
  • Why do we protect our self-image?

Another view

Some people accept moral challenges if presented respectfully.

More from Abraham Lincoln

  1. It is not best to swap horses while crossing the river.

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  2. The probability that we may fail in the struggle ought not to deter us from the support of a cause we believe to be just.

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  3. Beware of rashness, but with energy and sleepless vigilance go forward and give us victories.

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