If a listener nods his head when you're explaining your program, wake him up.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Nodding doesn't mean understanding; it often means zoning out.
- In plain terms
- People nod to be polite even if they aren't listening.
- What can you take from it?
- Check for understanding, not just nods.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Are they actually listening?
- How do you confirm understanding?
Another view
Sometimes nodding does signal understanding.
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