Many people never grow up. They stay all their lives with a passionate need for external authority and guidance, pretending not to trust their own judgment.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Many adults remain emotionally immature by constantly seeking external guidance instead of trusting their own judgment.
- In plain terms
- People often avoid making their own decisions and look for others to tell them what to do.
- What can you take from it?
- True maturity involves trusting your own judgment instead of seeking external authority.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you trust your own judgment?
- Why do you seek external authority?
Another view
It overlooks that seeking guidance can be a valid part of learning rather than just immaturity.
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