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What does it mean?
Many people seem loving but reveal self-interest when money is involved.
In plain terms
People say they love but often care more about money.
What can you take from it?
Watch actions over words when resources are scarce.

Where it applies

  • workplace
  • charity
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • observe behavior
  • set boundaries
  • check motives

Questions to consider

  • What do you value most?
  • Are actions matching words?

Another view

Some love is genuine even if financial stress exists.

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