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What does it mean?
Conflict arises between our desire for stability and the reality of constant change.
In plain terms
We fight nature because we want permanence but everything changes.
What can you take from it?
Accept change as natural instead of fighting it.

Where it applies

  • life transitions
  • stress management
  • grief

Putting it to work

  • practice surrender
  • embrace flux
  • meditate on change

Questions to consider

  • Where do you resist change?
  • What if you let go?

Another view

Some resistance to change is healthy for safety and planning.

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