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What does it mean?
Defining yourself is impossible, just as your teeth cannot bite themselves.
In plain terms
You cannot define yourself because you are the thing defining.
What can you take from it?
Self-definition is a paradox because the definer cannot be fully defined.

Where it applies

  • explaining self-concept
  • discussing identity
  • using metaphors

Putting it to work

  • avoid rigid labels
  • embrace fluidity
  • observe without defining

Questions to consider

  • Can you know yourself completely?
  • Is identity fixed or fluid?

Another view

The analogy is poetic but offers little guidance on how to navigate identity.

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