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What does it mean?
Understanding people requires learning their motives, illusions, and suffering.
In plain terms
To understand humans, study their motives and pains.
What can you take from it?
Empathy comes from understanding human motives and suffering.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • leadership
  • counseling

Putting it to work

  • building empathy
  • reading people
  • resolving disputes

Questions to consider

  • What drives the people around you?
  • How do illusions affect understanding?

Another view

People often hide their true motives or suffer silently.

More from Albert Einstein

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  2. A person starts to live when he can live outside himself.

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  3. A clever person solves a problem. A wise person avoids it.

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