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What does it mean?
The speaker admits that human motives are impossible to fully understand.
In plain terms
People's reasons are hard to know.
What can you take from it?
Accept that you cannot fully know others.

Where it applies

  • relating to others
  • self reflection
  • conflict

Putting it to work

  • listen more
  • avoid assumptions
  • seek clarity

Questions to consider

  • Can you ever know why someone acts?
  • How do you judge motives?

Another view

Some motives can be inferred from actions.

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