Skip to content
quotesby

About this quote

What does it mean?
Hamilton plans to hold fire in a duel to show restraint or avoid killing.
In plain terms
He decided not to shoot first in a fight.
What can you take from it?
Avoid violence when possible even in conflict.

Where it applies

  • personal dispute
  • code of honor
  • moral dilemma

Putting it to work

  • de-escalate fights
  • choose not to fight

Questions to consider

  • When is restraint appropriate?
  • How do you show honor?

Another view

Restraint may not prevent violence from the other side.

More from Alexander Hamilton

  1. A garden, you know, is a very usual refuge of a disappointed politician. Accordingly, I have purchased a few acres about nine miles from town, have built a hou…

    Permalink to quote #11
  2. The origin of all civil government, justly established, must be a voluntary compact, between the rulers and the ruled; and must be liable to such limitations, …

    Permalink to quote #13
  3. Men are rather reasoning than reasonable animals, for the most part governed by the impulse of passion.

    Permalink to quote #10

Related quotes

  1. We don't want to start a nuclear war unless we really have to, now do we Jack?

    Peter SellersPeter Sellers quote #4
  2. You're lucky I took me a vow of nonviolence,' said mike fink, 'Or you'd be suffering some pain right now.

    Orson Scott CardOrson Scott Card quote #530
  3. A military man can scarcely pride himself on having 'smitten a sleeping enemy'; it is more a matter of shame, simply, for the one smitten. I would rather you m…

    Isoroku YamamotoIsoroku Yamamoto quote #1