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What does it mean?
Tocqueville argues American women gain freedom as girls but lose independence after marriage.
In plain terms
American women are free when single but face strict duties when married.
What can you take from it?
Marriage traditionally restricted women's independence in 19th century America.

Where it applies

  • discussing gender equality
  • studying historical marriage

Putting it to work

  • analyzing women's rights history

Questions to consider

  • How has marriage changed for women?
  • What defines independence?

Another view

Modern marriage often allows more shared independence.

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