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I know so well what becomes of unmarried women who aren't prepared to occupy a position. I've seen such pitiful cases in the South - barely tolerated spinsters living upon the grudging patronage of sister's husband or brother's wife! - stuck away in some little mouse-trap of a room - encouraged by one in-law to visit another - little birdlike women without any nest - eating the crust of humility all their life! Is that the future that we've mapped out for ourselves?

Tennessee Williams#9

SocietyGender rolesIndependenceMarriagePoverty

About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker describes the bleak, dependent lives of unmarried women in the South to warn against having a similar fate.
In plain terms
Unmarried women often face pity and dependence, which is a life to avoid.
What can you take from it?
Financial and social independence is crucial for women to avoid destitution.

Where it applies

  • discussing women's rights
  • planning for the future
  • critiquing social structures

Putting it to work

  • pursue career
  • achieve financial independence
  • avoid dependence on family

Questions to consider

  • What safety nets exist for unmarried people today?
  • How have gender roles changed since this was written?

Another view

The view equates marriage too closely with security, ignoring unhappy marriages.

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