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All of my gentlemen callers were sons of planters and of course I assumed that I would be married to one and raise my family on a large piece of land with plenty of servants. But man proposes - and woman accepts the proposal! - To vary that old, old saying a little bit - I married no planter! I married a man who worked for the telephone company!

Tennessee Williams#17

LifeSocietyChoiceClassExpectationsIndependenceMarriageSocial class

About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker expected to marry into wealth and status but chose a working-class man instead, subverting traditional expectations.
In plain terms
I did not marry the wealthy man I was supposed to; I married a working man.
What can you take from it?
Personal choice can defy societal expectations about marriage and class.

Where it applies

  • discussing marriage choices
  • reflecting on life path
  • contrasting expectations with reality

Putting it to work

  • challenge social norms
  • define own success
  • value character over status

Questions to consider

  • How do societal expectations shape our personal choices?
  • Is defying tradition always the right path?

Another view

This perspective may overlook the genuine financial challenges that come with marrying outside one's class.

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