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Step back in time; look closely at the child in the very arms of his mother; see the external world reflected for the first time in the yet unclear mirror of his understanding; study the first examples which strike his eyes; listen to the first words which arouse within him the slumbering power of thought; watch the first struggles which he has to undergo; only then will you comprehend the source of his prejudices, the habits, and the passions which are to rule his life. The entire man, so to speak, comes fully formed in the wrappings of his cradle.

Alexis de Tocqueville#8

PsychologyBiasEducationChildhoodDevelopment

About this quote

What does it mean?
The passage argues that early childhood experiences shape a person's biases, habits, and passions for life.
In plain terms
Childhood forms lasting traits.
What can you take from it?
Early experiences have lasting impact.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • education
  • self‑reflection

Putting it to work

  • observe early influences
  • guide positive experiences

Questions to consider

  • What early experiences shaped you?
  • Can later change overcome early bias?

Another view

It may oversimplify complex adult development by attributing it mainly to early years.

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