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Of love that never found his earthly close, What sequel? Streaming eyes and breaking hearts? Or all the same as if he had not been? Not so. Shall Error in the round of time Still father Truth? O shall the braggart shout For some blind glimpse of freedom work itself Thro' madness, hated by the wise, to law System and empire? Sin itself be found The cloudy porch oft opening on the Sun? And only he, this wonder, dead, become Mere highway dust? or year by year alone Sit brooding in the ruins of a life, Nightmare of youth, the spectre of himself! If this were thus, if this, indeed, were all, Better the narrow brain, the stony heart, The staring eye glazed o'er with sapless days, The long mechanic pacings to and fro, The set gray life, and apathetic end. But am I not the nobler thro' thy love? O three times less unworthy! likewise thou Art more thro' Love, and greater than thy years.

Alfred (Lord) Tennyson#15

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Love and suffering shape individuals into better versions of themselves, giving life meaning beyond mere existence.
In plain terms
Love makes people nobler and their lives more meaningful than if they never loved.
What can you take from it?
Personal growth comes from love and overcoming suffering.

Where it applies

  • after a loss
  • reflecting on past love
  • seeking purpose

Putting it to work

  • valuing relationships
  • finding meaning in pain

Questions to consider

  • Does pain always lead to improvement?
  • How does love change you?

Another view

Not all suffering leads to growth; some only causes lasting damage.

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