Meanings are not determined by situations, but we determine ourselves by the meanings we give to situations.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- We define ourselves by the interpretations we give to events, not the events themselves.
- In plain terms
- Your meanings shape who you are.
- What can you take from it?
- Choose meanings that define you.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you interpret events?
- Who controls your meaning?
Another view
External events do constrain us regardless of meaning.
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