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Love doesn't go away because we want it to, but remains even when it becomes a searing pain, leaving the heart a desert of bitter remorse and grief for joy, a happiness that once has been and now never could return. There had been a time when simply to touch this little bit of linen he held now so casually brought every aching moment of that love back. The sense of desolate pain-drenched loss traveled up his arm, enclosing his heart like a set of icy fingers. A time when to look upon what it held was unbearable

Alice Borchardt#1

LoveMemorySufferingLoss

About this quote

What does it mean?
Love persists even when it turns into painful regret, leaving memories of past happiness that cannot return.
In plain terms
Love stays and hurts even when it is over, reminding you of joy you lost.
What can you take from it?
Past love can remain a source of deep pain.

Where it applies

  • breakups
  • grieving
  • nostalgia

Putting it to work

  • process grief
  • acknowledge pain
  • reflect on past

Questions to consider

  • Can love ever truly leave?
  • How does pain shape memory?

Another view

It portrays love as purely painful which may not fit all cases.

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