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What does it mean?
Naming a thing makes it memorable, so avoiding names helps guard affections.
In plain terms
It is easier to forget things that do not have names.
What can you take from it?
Avoid naming things to keep emotional distance.

Where it applies

  • protecting feelings
  • avoiding attachment
  • communication

Putting it to work

  • emotional protection
  • relationship boundaries

Questions to consider

  • Does naming increase attachment?
  • Is forgetting a good defense?

Another view

Ignoring names does not stop deep emotional connections.

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