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What does it mean?
Shared suffering creates stronger bonds between people than shared happiness does.
In plain terms
Pain brings people closer than joy does.
What can you take from it?
Hardship builds deep connections.

Where it applies

  • friendship
  • therapy
  • grief support

Putting it to work

  • listen to pain
  • share burdens
  • be present

Questions to consider

  • Who do you share pain with?
  • How has hardship affected your bonds?

Another view

Shared joy can also create lasting and positive bonds.

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