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What does it mean?
Patience is redefined as despair that people pretend is a good quality.
In plain terms
Waiting quietly is often just giving up hope but calling it a virtue.
What can you take from it?
Don't confuse waiting with acceptance.

Where it applies

  • difficult situations
  • personal conflict
  • waiting

Putting it to work

  • check if you are truly patient
  • seek change instead

Questions to consider

  • Is your patience real or forced?
  • When do you give up?

Another view

It ignores genuine stoic patience.

More from Ambrose Bierce

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