'If you mean Mr. Weston to be one of your victims,' said I, with affected indifference, 'you will have to make such overtures yourself that you will find it difficult to draw back when he asks you to fulfil the expectations you have raised.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- A character warns that making a romantic overture raises expectations that are hard to undo.
- In plain terms
- Once you show interest, you can't easily go back if they expect more.
- What can you take from it?
- Clear signals prevent awkward relationship situations.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you show interest without leading someone on?
- When is it too late to withdraw?
Another view
Not all signals are clear even when intended to be.
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