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What does it mean?
Deep understanding of others naturally leads to being more forgiving and tolerant.
In plain terms
When you understand people well, you judge them less.
What can you take from it?
Practice deep listening to become more tolerant of others.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • parenting
  • team management

Putting it to work

  • listen fully before judging
  • ask why people act that way

Questions to consider

  • Does understanding make you more forgiving?
  • How can you understand people better?

Another view

Sometimes understanding does not lead to tolerance if actions are harmful.

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