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What does it mean?
Self-love is often dependent on receiving love from others.
In plain terms
It is hard to love yourself if no one loves you.
What can you take from it?
Seek supportive relationships to maintain healthy self-esteem.

Where it applies

  • mental health struggles
  • loneliness
  • building confidence

Putting it to work

  • build supportive friendships
  • seek therapy

Questions to consider

  • Do you love yourself more when loved by others?
  • How do you build self-love alone?

Another view

True self-love should ideally be independent of external validation.

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