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What does it mean?
Our interpretation of events shapes us more than the events themselves.
In plain terms
Beliefs about events affect us more than the events.
What can you take from it?
Your view of events shapes you more than the events.

Where it applies

  • dealing with failure
  • processing trauma
  • handling criticism

Putting it to work

  • reframe challenges
  • challenge assumptions
  • practice gratitude

Questions to consider

  • How do you interpret bad news?
  • What belief limits you?

Another view

Some events have objective impacts regardless of belief.

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