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People's lives are a direct reflection of the expectations of their peer group.: Your life experience will never far exceed the expectations of your peers, because to stay connected to them there is an unconscious contract that says we're going to be within this range of each other. Now, on the other hand, if for some reason your friends have a higher expectation for life than you do, just to stay on the team you've got to raise your standard. And that's the beauty of life. (from Unleash the Power Within) [1]

Anthony Robbins#76

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Our peers expectations often limit or elevate our own standards and performance.
In plain terms
Your friends expectations shape your own standards.
What can you take from it?
Surround yourself with high expectations.

Where it applies

  • building teams
  • choosing friends
  • self improvement

Putting it to work

  • audit your circle
  • seek mentors
  • raise your standards

Questions to consider

  • Who influences your standards?
  • Are your peers raising or lowering your expectations?

Another view

External expectations can sometimes conflict with personal values.

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