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What does it mean?
Physical companionship matters less than the ideals or people you aspire to in your dreams. What you imagine shapes you more than who you live with.
In plain terms
Who you dream of matters more than who you live with.
What can you take from it?
Dreams shape character more than daily company.

Where it applies

  • personal growth
  • loneliness
  • inspiration

Putting it to work

  • choose inspiring role models
  • focus on inner life

Questions to consider

  • Who do you dream of?
  • How much do dreams shape reality?

Another view

It undervalues the impact of daily interaction on habit formation.

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