No one can build his security upon the nobleness of another person. Two people, when they love each other, grow alike in their tastes and habits and pride, but their moral natures (whatever we may mean by that canting expression) are never welded. The base one goes on being base, and the noble one noble, to the end.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- You cannot rely on someone else's character for your own safety. Even in love, people do not merge their moral natures; the base stay base and the noble stay noble.
- In plain terms
- Your security depends on you, not on your partner's goodness.
- What can you take from it?
- Love does not change a person's core character.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Can love change someone's character?
- Where does true security come from?
Another view
It may overlook how relationships can inspire moral growth over time.
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