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What does it mean?
Happiness depends on seeing goodness inside yourself; if you cannot see it inside, you won't see it outside.
In plain terms
You must see goodness in yourself to see it in the world.
What can you take from it?
See goodness inside to see it outside.

Where it applies

  • depression
  • conflict
  • self-esteem

Putting it to work

  • self-compassion
  • positive reframing

Questions to consider

  • What do you see in others that reflects on you?
  • What blocks your ability to see yourself clearly?

Another view

Sometimes external conditions genuinely make happiness difficult.

More from Anthony de Mello

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  2. Wisdom tends to grow in proportion to one's awareness of one's ignorance.

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  3. Whatever is truly alive must die. Look at the flowers; only plastic flowers never die.

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