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What does it mean?
Finding happiness often involves letting go of ego and self-consciousness.
In plain terms
You become happier when you stop focusing so much on yourself.
What can you take from it?
Selflessness leads to personal gain and joy.

Where it applies

  • meditation
  • artistic flow
  • helping others

Putting it to work

  • practice humility
  • engage in flow states
  • focus on others

Questions to consider

  • When do you feel most happy?
  • Does thinking about yourself bring joy?

Another view

Ignoring oneself completely can sometimes lead to neglect of personal needs.

More from Robert Louis Stevenson

  1. I am in the habit of looking not so much to the nature of a gift as to the spirit in which it is offered.

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  2. Am I no a bonny fighter?

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  3. To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life.

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