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What does it mean?
Compares spoiled children becoming anxious when expected rewards fail to arrive, implying similar behavior in adults.
In plain terms
People get nervous when used to getting what they want.
What can you take from it?
Manage expectations to avoid unnecessary stress.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • workplace
  • customer service

Putting it to work

  • set clear expectations
  • build resilience
  • communicate limits

Questions to consider

  • What expectations do you have?
  • How do you handle disappointment?

Another view

Not all nervousness stems from entitlement.

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