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What does it mean?
Winning helps reduce fear gradually, but fear of losing remains and must be continuously faced.
In plain terms
Success lowers fear slightly, but you still have to keep facing the fear of losing.
What can you take from it?
Keep challenging fear even after wins.

Where it applies

  • competition
  • challenging goals
  • personal development

Putting it to work

  • face fears incrementally
  • celebrate wins to build confidence

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle fear after a setback?
  • What does winning mean to you?

Another view

Repeated losses might overwhelm the confidence gained from wins.

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