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What does it mean?
People who live comfortably fail to recognize the suffering of those who struggle.
In plain terms
Happy people don't know how bad things can be for others.
What can you take from it?
Comfort can blind people to the struggles of others.

Where it applies

  • policy making
  • social work
  • interpersonal conflict

Putting it to work

  • seek diverse perspectives
  • engage with struggles
  • avoid assumptions

Questions to consider

  • How do you stay aware of others' struggles?
  • Why is it hard to empathize with pain you haven't felt?

Another view

It assumes the happy are entirely unaware rather than simply disconnected.

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