Pride is an established conviction of one's own paramount worth in some particular respect, while vanity is the desire of rousing such a conviction in others, and it is generally accompanied by the secret hope of ultimately coming to the same conviction oneself. Pride works from within; it is the direct appreciation of oneself. Vanity is the desire to arrive at this appreciation indirectly, from without.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Pride is self‑appreciation of one's worth; vanity seeks that appreciation from others, often hoping to feel it oneself eventually.
- In plain terms
- Pride is internal, vanity seeks external validation.
- What can you take from it?
- Distinguish genuine self‑respect from seeking praise.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When does pride become arrogance?
- How can one recognize vanity in oneself?
Another view
The distinction can blur in real situations.
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