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I scarce ever heard or saw the introductory words, 'Without vanity I may say,' &c., but some vain thing immediately followed. Most people dislike vanity in others, whatever share they have of it themselves; but I give it fair quarter wherever I meet with it, being persuaded that it is often productive of good to the possessor, and to others that are within his sphere of action; and therefore, in many cases, it would not be altogether absurd if a man were to thank God for his vanity among the other comforts of life.

Benjamin Franklin#15

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Vanity often leads to good outcomes, so it should be tolerated.
In plain terms
Vanity can do good, so accept it.
What can you take from it?
Accept human flaws if they help.

Where it applies

  • social interaction
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • use strengths despite flaws

Questions to consider

  • Can flaws be useful?

Another view

Vanity can also harm.

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