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What does it mean?
The author feels that existing is difficult enough without adding the complexity of their own personality.
In plain terms
Life is hard, and being myself makes it harder.
What can you take from it?
Accept that your unique traits add complexity to life.

Where it applies

  • self-criticism
  • feeling misunderstood

Putting it to work

  • self-acceptance
  • therapy

Questions to consider

  • Does being yourself feel like a burden?

Another view

It may encourage isolation rather than connection.

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