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What does it mean?
Self-improvement is hard; if you can't fix yourself, try to cooperate with who you are.
In plain terms
Since I can't fix myself, I'll just work with myself.
What can you take from it?
Accept yourself when change isn't possible.

Where it applies

  • personal struggle
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • negotiate with habits
  • practice self-compassion

Questions to consider

  • Can you truly make peace with flaws?
  • Is change always better than acceptance?

Another view

Sometimes change is necessary rather than just making peace.

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