Looking at this immensely swollen face in front of him the doctor gently consoled the patient, 'Comrade, don't worry and you will recover.' As a matter of fact, he was thinking quite the opposite, 'You will die. I can be of no more help.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- A doctor comforted a patient verbally while internally believing the patient would die.
- In plain terms
- The doctor said comforting words but knew the patient would not survive.
- What can you take from it?
- Comforting words may mask internal hopelessness.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is it better to lie to give hope?
- How do you deliver bad news?
Another view
Patients may detect underlying doubt in caregiver tone.
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