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When alone he secretly shook his head. But suddenly he recalled the analysis made by the Party secretary regarding 'two kinds of social system, two attitudes, and therefore two different results.' He felt as if he had seen a ray of light in the darkness. He said to himself, 'Lao Chiu can endure pain of such magnitude, and in spite of his burns he is always thinking of going back to the furnace. He wants to live. Why should he not be able to live?' That moment, suddenly the doctor and the patient were drawn closely together. From then on, the doctor thought of the patient often and also tried to compare himself with Lao Chiu. The more he compared the more he felt ashamed of himself and the more eager he was to do his best for this worker. So, from the very first day the assistant surgeon learned something from his patient.

Ba Jin#19

HealthCareChangeMotivationSelf reflectionShame

About this quote

What does it mean?
The doctor felt ashamed after comparing his attitude to the patient's determination to live.
In plain terms
The doctor felt bad comparing himself to the strong patient.
What can you take from it?
Comparing yourself to others can inspire positive change.

Where it applies

  • workplace comparison
  • personal improvement
  • medical care

Putting it to work

  • reflect on attitude
  • strive to improve
  • connect with others

Questions to consider

  • Who inspires you to be better?
  • When did you feel ashamed of your effort?

Another view

Comparison can also lead to unhealthy rivalry.

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