'Diplomacy is the art of telling someone to go to hell and making them anticipate the trip.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Diplomacy involves delivering unwelcome news with elegance.
- In plain terms
- Say no nicely so it hurts less.
- What can you take from it?
- Softening blows is a key skill.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you say no?
- Is honesty always best?
Another view
Over-politeness can obscure necessary truths.
More from Benjamin Disraeli
If you are not very clever, you should be conciliatory.
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