Respect children because they're human beings and they deserve respect, and they'll grow up to be better people. But I've always said ask for respect from your children, ask for cooperation, ask for politeness. Give your children firm leadership.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Children deserve respect as humans, but parents must also lead firmly to earn cooperation and politeness.
- In plain terms
- Treat children with respect but also lead them firmly.
- What can you take from it?
- Respect and firm leadership should go hand in hand.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you show respect to children?
- Is leadership the same as control?
Another view
It risks conflating respect with obedience.
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